Matt Flannery’s Epiphany to start Kiva.org + How He Made It Happen

kiva-logoWe seem separated by distance, culture, language, religion, etc., but the fact is our fates around the world are really intertwined and the things we value are similar. If everyone just knew that, we could bridge our perceived separateness,and the world would be a very different place.”
~Matt Flannery

I conducted this interview with Matt Flannery a couple of years ago and was “saving” it for my next book, but what the hell – I’m not one known for my patience (though I’m learning!) and this interview is just too good to have on ice. I don’t want to wait anymore for anything that is in the “one day…” vein, you know?

This not waiting for “one day…” is somewhat a recent epiphany for me. Within the last couple of months, there have been several people that I know of who woke up one morning and maybe did or didn’t tell their loved ones “goodbye” or “love you” when they ran out the door for the daily grind – there was no indicator that the day was special or different in any way, and, for whatever reason, that was their last time to see their loved ones, their last chance to share anything, their last day here.

Not that sharing this interview is something ultra-important like telling your loved ones you love them or good-bye. But I do want to share with you everything I collect and know regarding epiphanies and this project. That’s my commitment and job, I want to leave nothing unsaid or unshared in my repertoire if I can help it.

A little background on my experience with Kiva: It started in 2007 when a friend told me about it, and I have been a Kiva lender ever since.  I’m still not sure exactly what cattle draddling is but I was so impressed by an entrepreneur in Azerbaijan that I lent him money to start his business. I’ve lent to people in Mexico, Samoa and many places around the globe.  I find it’s empowering for me — and probably for the borrower, too, because in loaning to them, we’re saying, “You can do it, we believe in you and here’s a loan we know you can pay back.”  Lenders don’t make a profit or any interest. I especially enjoy learning about other people’s experiences; you can correspond with the people you loan to and with other lenders and join groups. The site is a pure inspiration to me about how big the world is — yet at the same time, very small, and how connected we are.

So here you go. An amazing interview with Matt Flannery the Co-Founder and CEO of Kiva.org, an organization I love and have been involved with for years and if you didn’t know about Kiva yet, maybe you’ll find it rewarding to get involved too.

Matt Flannery’s Greatest Epiphany in Life as told to Elise Ballard

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Matt Flannery is the Co-Founder and CEO of Kiva.org, a non-profit organization that is the world’s first online micro-lending platform connecting private individuals willing to loan money to borrowers with small businesses in developing countries. Flannery is a Draper Richards Fellow, Skoll Awardee and Ashoka Fellow and graduated with a BS in Symbolic Systems and a Masters in Philosophy from Stanford University. He was a computer programmer at TiVo, Inc. before starting Kiva at the age of 28.  He resides in San Francisco where Kiva is also based. www.kiva.org 

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I think of all the events that have happened in my life, the most life changing one is the story of Kiva.  It’s a long story, but I’ll try to give the short version.  Basically when we started Kiva, I was recently out of school and married to my former wife. Jessica’s life dream was to work and serve the poor in Africa.  I wanted to start my own business and make my mark so I was programming computers in Silicon Valley at TiVo.  I was going through a quarter life identity crisis. I didn’t disagree with what I was doing, but it just wasn’t captivating or awe-inspiring.  I just couldn’t picture my life continuing forever this way. I had grown up in a religious family that was outwardly focused and philanthropic.  We did mission trips, sponsored children, and talking about issues like AIDS and international development was a big part of my childhood. I always wanted to make my mark in the world in a significant way somehow and was really struggling because I didn’t feel like what I was doing was significant.

So we decided to take some time off and go work in Africa as volunteers.  We were working at a non-profit microfinance institution there that our friend ran, measuring the impact of microfinance loans on small entrepreneurs. Jessica could take off more time than I could, so I was only there a month but she stayed longer. From that period of time and process of being connected together in Africa, meeting all these entrepreneurs, and then trying to stay connected from afar, the pieces came together that would make Kiva happen.

It was February 2004, and I was walking around in the streets of The Mission District in San Francisco one night after having a couple of beers and hearing music with some friends.  I was lonely and missed Jessica – we’d only been married a few months.  So I called her and she was waking up.  While we were talking, I just suddenly got amazed at how connected we were.  She was sending pictures, SMS messages, and emails and we were talking every day, even though she was in a place where I could hear roosters and cattle in the background — it was really remote. It really made me think about how small the world is becoming.  With technology, now we can be connected to even the bleakest, most remote places.  It made me think when we hung up, “We should broadcast this as content. We could get blog entries from an African village, and we could allow people to make a loan to these people themselves.”

I’d grown to realize, thanks to Jess and to spending time in Africa, that we have so much in common with people across the world — even those that live in the most remote and difficult parts of the world.  It was just by life’s lottery that I was born here and they were born into poverty there.  We seem separated by distance, culture, language, religion, et cetera, but the fact is our fates are really intertwined and the things we value are similar. If everyone just knew that, we could bridge our perceived separateness, and the world would be a very different place.  The exciting thing is now we have the Internet and technology to actually start building those bridges. These were the realizations that instigated Kiva.

My friends laugh at me because I have a million ideas all the time.  Big ideas.  Since I was having this identity crisis and wasn’t thrilled with my job, I was writing down one business idea every day in this notebook, and some of them were good.  Sometimes I would think them through, write business plans and send them to my friends, asking what they thought. I did this dozens of times.  Kiva.org was just one.  We launched a year later.

My thought was, “I used to sponsor children.  Why can’t I sponsor a business?” So I started looking on the Internet for a way to do that, and didn’t see any organizations that could help.  I started researching the concept, wondering, “There are all these businesses that need loans in Africa.  I just met these guys that were doing goat herding, and they need more goats. Why couldn’t we figure out a way to loan to them?”

After a year of trying to figure out how it might work and why it might not, the Kiva website was up and running.  Originally, we took loans to give to people in Uganda.  For about the first two years, it was just our side project.  We never took it quite seriously.  It was more like a blog — our little hobbyist website. I was working at TiVo.  Jess went to business school.  And Pastor Moses, our partner in Uganda, ran his church.  So it was really just a hobby.

But then we started getting huge Internet traffic thanks to referrals, and it became overwhelming. It took us really by surprise.  I had to quit my job to maintain the website because hundreds of thousands of dollars were coming through my personal bank account – we didn’t even have a separate account for it, much less a non-profit set up. So I had to quit my job and create a strategy and team to meet the demand, and make it a sustainable venture.  By the third year, it took off exponentially.

It’s been over eight years now since we launched.  Today, Kiva has 60+ people on staff, has processed over $500 million in loans, works in 73 countries, and has over one million registered users as well as borrowers around the world.  We are meeting with people all over the world about different micro-loan programs because many of us really believe it is the future.

When you make a loan to someone, it’s more of an egalitarian transaction than a straight up donation.  There’s a sense of believing in somebody else and of being equals. It’s a dignified interaction.  Also, when you provide a lot of information about the borrowers and show people where their money is going, it creates trust.  It leaves people feeling very empowered, and what ends up happening is the lenders keep doing it, because they can see where their money goes and see that it’s working.  One of the greatest things I think about Kiva, though, is that we’re contributing to awareness-building.  We’re getting the cause of international development and microfinance out there in the mainstream, and giving people a really easy way to interact and get involved with it.  We can’t believe how the dream of bringing people together like this and using the Internet to promote our common values and closeness is coming true and working.

I would say that has been a huge realization for me as well.  I have been absolutely blown away by the spirit and generosity of people all over the world.  People are really, really giving.  Going in, I actually was quite jaded about the reaction I thought we’d get. I thought Kiva would be a really small thing. It was a work of love, and I didn’t think a lot of lenders would respond.  I thought people were more greedy, fearful and apathetic.  But getting emails from around the world, and seeing thousands of people donate money in small, large and every kind of amount, my assessment of human nature has drastically changed. I just didn’t expect that to happen. Thousands of people are donating and volunteering and helping.  I feel a lot more positive not only about my life, but about people everywhere and the goodness we are all capable of.

Besides this, I feel there is now a direction to my life.  There is a meaning behind it.  I’m on a path, and it’s the right one — even though it’s not always an easy one, to say the least. I definitely wouldn’t say that it’s brought me constant happiness.  But I think I have something better that I wouldn’t trade for anything. I describe it as a “connectedness” that I’ve never had before – to myself and to others.  I don’t really worry about my future as much as I used to.  I got through my little identity crisis because I started doing something that I loved and time began flying by.  I don’t really need some big success to happen or to make a lot of money, and I don’t think about things like security or retiring safely.  All that worry about being secure went away because I enjoy my daily work. The concept of work and play started mingling together, and I don’t feel like I really have a “job” any more.

I feel really lucky we were able to stumble onto this idea.  I could never have dreamed that I would feel this supported, helped and loved by people all over the world.

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“Show the Love” Epiphany Series: Interview with Natalia Safran

Natalia_Safran_niczego_5615417“Every morning when I wake up, I say to myself, ‘I’m so lucky.’ Even if things may not be going so great and I’m not necessarily feeling that way, it’s my mantra. It puts things in perspective – we all have something we can be grateful for each day, and I’ve found that affirming gratitude and claiming you’re lucky every day draws ‘luck’ and more to be grateful for to you.”
~Natalia Safran

Natalia Safran was another dynamic woman that I had the opportunity to interview during our Show the Love night.

Natalia was hosting the Show the Love event and the epiphany that we discuss in the video is about music and what led her to her new career as a singer/songwriter. She also has good advice about how to stay positive and lucky.

(And I should have asked what her skin regimen is! Next time… )

 

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Natalia’s album HIGH NOON was first released in Poland to great critical acclaim and commercial success and many of her songs are included in movie soundtracks including the song, “All I Feel Is You” from “Hours,” Paul Walker‘s last film, which Natalia mentions in our interview. The video for that song is below and all profits from the sale of the single will benefit Walker’s non-profit organization, Reach Out Worldwide. Natalia’s new album is coming out this spring, and you can follow her on her site or on Facebook for news.

For information and the code for the special Epiphany discount for Show the Love Jewelry, go HERE!.

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“Show the Love” Epiphany Series: Taking A “Light Bulb Moment” to Reality

“It is your enthusiasm, inspiration and commitment to your ideas that become contagious, and when you take action from that place, the roads you need are opened.” ~ Betsy Heimann

41e2cc72ecc501a393dad043f74e3acaWhile we were filming at the trunk show and party for the wonderful jewelry line, Show the Love, (you can read all about that and the SPECIAL DISCOUNT EPIPHANY PEEPS GET on Show the Love jewelry here), I was introduced to the lovely Betsy Heimann.

Betsy is one of Hollywood’s top costume designers and when she told me her story about an epiphany that led to her creating the Betsy Bra by Cosabella (a bra with sleeves (see left) that can be worn alone or under clothes, even transforming sleeveless dresses for winter nights and parties!), I just had to get her on camera — so we filmed her right there in the middle of the Show the Love party. No lighting, party blaring around us, the true kind of guerilla filmmaking I always tend to find the most fun, although it’s not always the best way to do things…

But I think you’ll enjoy this interview as much as I did, and I love Betsy’s advice about taking action, how to test your ideas with people and what it takes to bring your inspirations into reality — PLUS the story of the serendipity that immediately happened when she committed to creating the Betsy Bra is awesome!

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BETSY HEIMANN, costume designer, recently completed work on WISH I WAS HERE, directed by ZACH BRAFF and starring ZACH BRAF, KATE HUDSON, AND MANDY PATINKIN. Her recent credits include A WALK AMONG THE TOMBSTONES, opening in theaters in fall 2014, and starring Liam Neeson. Additional credits include include the comedy THE CHANGE UP, directed by David Dobkin and starring Ryan Reynolds, Jason Bateman, and Leslie Mann; Joe Carnahan’s THE A TEAM, and Steve Soderberg’s hit OUT OF SIGHT starring George Clooney and Jennifer Lopez..  She has also designed the costumes for Cameron Crowe’s VANILLA SKY, ALMOST FAMOUS and JERRY MAGUIRE, as well as Quentin Tarantino’s RESERVOIR DOGS and PULP FICTION.

THE BETSY BRA

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“Show the Love” Epiphany Series + A Special Valentines Offer!

purple-showthelove-logoWe are so excited about the month of February – the month of VALENTINES, ROMANCE, and LOVE — because we have a very special offer for you to celebrate it and find that perfect Valentines gift for yourself and loved ones — all from an epiphany! Read on…

I recently did a series of interviews with jewelry designer, Jen Pleasants, and a couple of the women we met at her trunk show in Los Angeles for Show the Love, Jen’s eco-friendly + inspirational jewelry line. All of the epiphanies in this short series of interviews I’ll be posting have to do with the LOVE of these ladies’ work, advice on how to stay inspired and fulfilled, and how to spark epiphanies and bring ideas into fruition. 

The first video of the “Show The Love” series is my interview with Jen Pleasants.

The jewelry Jen designs emphasizes positive affirmations, invokes “girl power” and is crafted with recycled metals and ethically sourced stones. Each piece is designed and named to express a feeling or sentiment. The hope of Jen and her company is that by wearing their jewelry, people will be inspired to “Show the LOVE” for themselves, for others and for the Earth. (That’s right – 5% of their profits go to Water.org and other non-profits as well.) What better way to celebrate the Month o’ Love?

Here’s a little background on how I came across Jen and her amazing company:

I was at a girls’ gathering on the beach here in Los Angeles and saw a friend’s “Magic Lantern” necklace and honed in on it like a radar. I had never seen anything like it before and ran up to my friend and asked her about it, and voila! I was introduced to Jen and now have my own Magic Lantern necklace! It’s one of my favorite pieces of jewelry and every time I wear it out (which is ALL the time) I get compliments and comments on it. What’s especially cool is Show the Love’s intention for the necklace:

“Who doesn’t love the notion of a magic lantern?  Just one rub and a genie pops out to grant your every wish. What we love about this lantern is that it reminds us that: “Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.”  Take a rub of this lantern and be grateful for all the goodness that you have in your life and you might find that by acknowledging your abundance, more goodness will flow your way.”

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Beautiful, right? And all the jewelry is that way. From “Full Heart” necklaces to “Girl Power” drops, rings and bracelets to an “Almighty Isis” line, every piece of Show the Love jewelry is infused with an uplifting and positive intention. She also has all kinds of price points for her jewelry from very affordable to custom-made pieces. After learning about Jen and her philosophy and experiencing the “magic” of the Magic Lantern for myself, when I found out she was going to be in Los Angeles for a trunk show, I had to interview her! Jen shared with us that it was an epiphany that led to all this. She said it was the moment that she realized,

“Take what you love, your ‘bliss’, and find where it crosses service in some way. It’s at that intersection of bliss and service that the magic in life is created.” ~Jen Pleasants

Even when she was working in the technology business, Jen had always been an artist and loved to sculpt, and she’d always collected inspirational quotes. When she started using her sculpting skills to make jewelry for fun in her spare time, she would wear it and people would comment on how much they loved it. She began giving pieces as gifts, which led to her eventually selling pieces simply to raise money for causes she believed in. One day,  in the middle of making “Peace” necklaces that she had been selling and giving away, she realized she was giving and selling enough of these that she could make it a full-fledged business — she realized she actually could do what she loved, still donate and promote her beliefs and ideals and provide service to outside organizations and people in need, but she also could make money and employ others to join her. And that’s what she did.

You’ll see some of Jen’s gorgeous, unique jewelry in this short video and you can check out all of it on her site at ShowTheLove.com.

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AND NOW FOR THE FANTABULOUS VALENTINES OFFER!  Jen is generously offering anyone from EpiphanyChannel a 20% Valentines’ discount to “Show the Love” to yourself and your loved ones! So be part of the ripple effect of Jen’s epiphany and gift yourself and loved ones some of Show the Love’s eye-catching and meaningful jewelry while also spreading love to organizations who help others in need. (Men, women will swoon and adore you over these pieces, trust me.)

Just go to ShowtheLove.com, shop to your heart’s content, then use the discount code: EPIPHANY20 when you check out and you’ll get 20% off  your order!

Happy Valentine’s and thanks for showing your love

 

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Post-it Epiphanies: Profound Revelations on a 3×3


I’ve posted about Post-it Epiphanies before. Sometimes when I speak and conduct workshops, I get people to write out what their greatest epiphanies have been on a simple post-it and then we post them on the wall anonymously for us all to explore.

Below are some from Jennifer Pastiloffs amazing tribe when I spoke at her Ojai retreat this fall. I love how profound yet simple these revelations can be and how I completely relate to so many of them. What strikes me as well is something I don’t talk about as much: every time I read or hear epiphanies, even if they exist on a 3×3 piece of sticky paper, I am inspired by the incredible courage of human beings. On a daily basis, we all exhibit so much courage, and so often it’s not acknowledged. We certainly don’t acknowledge ourselves a lot of the time for how much courage it takes for us to change, to say “no,” to leave, to take action, to speak out, to quit performing, to quit pleasing, to walk away, to move, to help, to tell our truth, to share our stories, to sacrifice, to do what it takes, to dream, to face our demons and illnesses, to support, to write our secrets on a post-it for all the world to see…

And the list goes on and on…

What has been your greatest epiphany in life? Can you grab a post-it and just write it down. Right now? See what happens when you do. Maybe even hang it up where you can see it to remind yourself of it and what you felt and were able to do when you had it. Use these moments as a tool. Mine them for the information and inspiration and courage you found and can still find in them. Notice how you have displayed and acted out of courage, whether from an epiphany or not, and give yourself kudos. Share your stories with us so we can give them to you too! And if you want more information on how to do that and/or how to create and cultivate epiphanies in your life, contact us here and we’ll let you know about upcoming workshops, talks, and opportunities for one-on-one work.

And now for some Post-it Epiphanies …

 

IMG_2584 When I was 16, I was trying to figure out what I wanted to study in college. I was talking to an assistant teacher and BAM! I knew! FILM STUDIES.
My dad was pissed – in his mind, I was wasting college tuition. I did it anyway and it has led me to my career and path in life.

IMG_2573 My greatest epiphany was realizing that I did not need to keep “living” the way I was living. I realized that MANY other people are living a much fuller life than I had been with much less than I had. The lessons I learned were:
It’s okay to walk away.
Money and possessions are less important than maximizing living life. 

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I realized my life had become (or maybe always had been) a PERFORMANCE. When I confessed this to my husband, he asked me not to change it. It was working for him. Not for me.

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We are all knowledge. We know. But our thoughts cover up the knowledge.

IMG_2597“Stuff” is a physical manifestation of a feeling, a memory, a longing…

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I used to always say “yes” to invitations to go do things. It really didn’t really matter what the event or occasion was. One of which I’d said “yes” to, was a Kaskade concert in San Francisco. In the middle of a song, I looked around and my whole mind went quiet except for my inner voice saying, “You need to learn to say ‘no’ to things you don’t like.” I don’t like Kaskade. Now I relish in the “no” when it leads me to things I love.

IMG_2578I realized I was living my life for others instead of living for myself, and I was able to make the changes to be free and authentic and true.

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I was nervous to get engaged. We had been together for over 5 years, but both of our parents were divorced and we were adamant about staying together should we get married. We couldn’t pull the trigger. One night, I was writing in my prayer journal and suddenly it dawned on me – it was a sudden insight / deep understanding – that all I had to do was jump in and believe it would work, otherwise, I would stay stuck forever. We got engaged 3 weeks later – 20 years ago. <3

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My Greatest Epiphany in Life:
Freedom ->Liberation is for Everyone.
Freedom is accessible to everyone.

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When Princess Diana died, I was sitting in front of the T.V. with my mom looking at all the amazing things Diana had done in her life, and I had an epiphany: I wanted to help people, do good, help others. I was 10 years old.

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My mind went totally silent…and I felt the bliss of being.

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My epiphany happened 5 years ago: I read the book, “Eat, Pray, Love” and realized I could quit my job, take time off and start a whole new life somewhere else — and I did it! And I’m so much happier because of it. 🙂

IMG_2569 I had a possible cancer scare and wouldn’t know if the tumor was cancerous until surgery. Two nights before surgery, in the quiet of the late night, as I pondered, meditated and listened for an answer to, “What is this tumor?” an overwhelming feeling of peace came over me and I knew I was okay. (And I was.)

IMG_2572 The man of my dreams can be and is real.

IMG_2593 One day I realized that I was a codependent. I found myself obsessed over a man’s problem, and I realized that he was the second obsession in a row – that it was a pattern and I was the common factor. I re-read the book, “Co-Dependent No More,” and started to heal.

IMG_2592 Things are happening FOR us and not TO us.

IMG_2590 I gained confidence in my life’s purpose without doubt.

IMG_2560For my children to be able to trust their inner voice and intuition, it was time for me to leave my marriage.

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